This is my son, Chester, who is nearly 4. He was invited to his friend Chloe’s birthday party today, the theme was prince and princesses. He asked if he could go as Sleeping Beauty, so I bought him a dress and put a cute little clip in his hair.
We arrived at the party to the following comments from the adults present:
“Oh that is just cruel.”
"Why did you make him wear a dress?"
"Poor little man, what’s your mummy playing at?"
"He’s going to hate you when he grows up."
"No way I’d let my son dress like a girl."
The fact is, Chester is almost completely gender neutral. I let him wear what he wants, be it boys or girls clothes, and he plays with whatever toys he likes. This usually involves him holding tea parties while wearing his pink Minnie Mouse top, jeans and a tiara. The guests are more often than not a mixture of Winnie The Pooh characters, dinosaurs, Barbie, Dora and solders, and they’re usually transported in his favorite fire engine.
When my husband arrived at the party later on, he was subjected to endless ridicule from the other dad’s present about how I must keep his balls in my back pocket because otherwise he would have put his foot down and not allowed Chester out like that. Oh, and by the way, our other son dressed as Ariel. When my husband pointed out that the boys were happy, and the mother of the birthday child made a point of saying how wonderful she thought it was that we allowed them freedom of choice and expression, they then stopped talking about it to our faces and started muttering about us behind our backs.
Interestingly enough, not a single child said a word about their choice of costumes, other than to compliment Chester on his new dress.
Children are NOTgender neutral. Ever. Children do not have the mental ability to decide their gender. Boys can like femenine things and girls can like masculine things without being gender neutral or trans* or whatever. Quit labeling your children, like holy fuck people! Just let them be a kid! Jesus christ people. Good for you and letting your kid dress how he wants, but for God’s sake don’t label him genderqueer.
Dean just saw his last family die in front of his eyes,murdered in the worst possible way by a twisted Angel who is “wearing” his brother.Dean watched as Sam’s body took the life out of Kevin.He watched as the young man’s eyes burned in his skull and he watched as Gadreel left, taking a completely helpless and unprotected Sam along.Kevin is gone,Sam is gone,Cas is gone,Charlie is gone.Dean has noone.Dean has nothing.Dean Winchester,ladies and gentlemen is a BROKEN MAN.
*I didn’t even bother putting my name on my gifs.I am doing this because I don’t care right now.This episode hurt me in too many ways and I am doing this under no name because this does not belong to me.This does not belong to you.This belongs to this characters.That’s all I had to say.
ezekiel is dead